🎙️Iconic Freedom The Formula Season 3, Episode 37 “It’s about me, not you; it’s all about you”

How many times have you heard: “It’s not you, it’s me”? Or its twin: “It’s all about you”?

Here’s the paradox — both are true. Every experience we live is born within us. What we feel, react to, and hold onto is ours to own. The other person is often just a bystander in our inner drama.

In this episode, we’ll break down:

• The Paradox of Ownership: why both “it’s not you” and “it’s all about you” are equally true.
• Projection vs. Responsibility: how blaming others hides unprocessed disorder in ourselves.
• The Relationship Example: how two partners can each think it’s about the other, when really it’s always about themselves.
• The Sovereignty Shift: seeing what’s yours to carry and what belongs to someone else.

By the end, you’ll have a sharper lens for relationships — with yourself, and with others — no matter the level of connection.